We Internet Date To Find Or For Amusement

[Jim Allan]

We Internet Date To Find Or For Amusement
James Allan | 5-7-2016

Internet dating? I'm the last person that should be talking about this subject because if the match isn't "Supernatural" I tend to back away from all the feelings and emotional baggage that are inherent in most people that are looking for someone to connect with. I'm a really, really "Realistic" person and this subject of internet dating or any dating for that fact is not a strong point of mine and I always put it on the back burner so to speak. When you run into that person who's a "Supernatural" match the gem light turns on when both personalities can mesh and go beyond the normal strong emotional attractions that bring people together. I'm not big on this stuff but I'm aware when it comes to persons being together for a long period of time. If it's not a "Supernatural" match that goes beyond just being content I'm not there. You can only hope if it goes "Supernatural" it isn't with someone that's married.

"Me talking about this stuff, "Nan". My thoughts are just consumed right now as they were captured. Since I always go where no man would dare to go on other subjects and certainly on this one what the hey. I might learn something and have some fun to boot sitting here at my computer "Typing". I don't take comfort in playing to an audience of onlookers at all but for some time I can adapt to this kind of interaction on the open internet. Fun, fun, fun when the fun is over if the open internet dating doesn't develop into a ""private email account on a web site forum or other"" the fun will fade away. Well, if this internet dating becomes a reality or just an exploration into something that's not going to happen something can be gotten from it that's mentally positive."

Talking only for myself. I don't have anything to bring to the table at all in the way of finances or ownership of anything to anyone if I would happen to get tangled up with in an internet dating situation. The fact of the matter is right now I'm a stink'in boat anchor even though I do have some money saved but not anything to speak of.

Before 2008 I was exploring some internet dating sites but I was only a lookieloo so to speak just doing some reading and yes, lots of looking. My income was good at that time but I wasn't grabbed by anyone I saw. Facebook and other social media sites didn't produce anyone either that really interested me beyond how great they looked. In 2008 when the present democratic government was elected I knew economic problems were coming and just gawked at the "Babe" that caught my attention on T.V. while I kept an eye open on social media and awaited the ending of my income. My income decreased steady until 2011 when it really crashed.

2007, 2008 I was watching the news and did get interested big time with a personalities personality type but of coarse a T.V. personality is "Dreamland" that just isn't ever going to happen and getting excited over someone that attracts your interest on T.V. is just a normal general thing that happens to everyone and gives rise to the "Star" personalities we are all entertained by. But!, I was extremely interested in the T.V. personalities personality type and the appearance is "Pretty" but that's "Dreamland" and getting caught up in "Dreamland" is a no go. I didn't want a clone of what grabbed my interest in the T.V. personality but finding someone similar in at least the personality type wasn't out of the question.

The point of this article?, the reality is I did run across a personality on the internet that appears to like me and I sure do like the personality that likes me and with the vastness of the internet plus the greater access to personalities internet dating can be a positive thing if you are willing to wait years and do tons of looking. I sure don't know if what I found is going anywhere but it can happen on or off dating web sites. I keep hearing T.V. advertisements of people that found their other on the internet so there's without a doubt something to it. You can always find matches that you like and get along with well but finding that "Supernatural" match may take some years and sometimes she's right in front of your face and your just not looking.